Still Married — Never Roommates

 

Still Married — Never Roommates

They keep trying to convince others that my wife and I are no longer married — so much so that they reportedly had a fake divorce decree created inside the Illinois court system, hidden from public search but circulated privately as a deception tool.

Not to change our reality.

Not to defend truth.

But to shape a false narrative.

They are desperate to undermine what they cannot break.

They’ve even resorted to foolish tactics — like instructing hotels to assign us twin-queen rooms, then inspecting the beds afterward.

If both beds were used?
They called it “proof” we are not together.

If only one bed was used?
They called that “normal.”

In other words…

No matter what the outcome is —
they twist it into confirmation of their lie.

This proves nothing.

Except how obsessed they are.

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Here is the truth

My wife and I are:

• still married

• still united

• still covenant-bound

• still one flesh under Yahuah

We are perfectly fine together — and apart.

We walk in:

• trust

• peace

• maturity

• loyalty

• partnership

• purpose

Our marriage does not exist to satisfy spectators.

It does not perform for strangers.

And it does not bend to the curiosity of third-party observers
who somehow believe our private covenant is their public concern.

Why does our marriage matter to people who are not in it?

That remains a mystery.

But what is not a mystery is this:

They cannot comprehend unity that does not fracture under pressure.

They cannot understand a bond held together
by love, endurance, faith, sacrifice, and calling.

So they invent stories to fill in the gaps
their jealousy cannot explain.

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Our Covenant Record

We have been:

• Married for 11 years and 7 months

• Together, including courtship, for 13 years, 7 months, and 16 days

Not out of obligation.

Not out of image.

But out of commitment.

Out of covenant.

Out of choice — every single day.

We are not roommates.

We are not separated.

We are not divided.

We are what they refuse to accept:

A husband and wife who survived the fire
and grew stronger because of it.

They wanted to divide us.

Instead — our unity exposed their intentions.

They wanted to shame us.

Instead — their schemes became shameful.

They wanted to monitor our beds…

…but Yahuah has already established our house.

And no paper
no rumor
no manipulator
no false decree
no manufactured narrative

can rewrite what Yahuah has joined together.